Failure and success. We spend a lot of our lives trying to get away from failure and get to success. We have sayings about failure and success. We say failure is not an option. We associate success with winners and failure with losers. We make little posters on the walls that talk about success and achievement and teamwork and we hang them up in our workplaces so everybody will work harder and cynical people like me make other versions of them to send around on the Internet with other sayings on them. You get those in your email from time to time. And they say stuff like “Failure is when your best is just not good enough.” You’ve seen that one. We spend a significant amount of effort dealing with failure and success and we fear failure and we want to be on the road to success. And somewhere along the line failure became a bad word. I mean we all want to be successful right. We want to be successful parents. So parents I have a question. Are you successful if your child is 28 years old and still living at home and working for minimum wage at McDonald’s? Are you a successful parent if your child doesn’t grow up and accept Jesus as their savior?